Love is a choice wrapped in emotion. Loving someone, and being married to someone is not always easy. In fact, it is probably the most difficult thing you will ever cross in your life. These days, when times get tough, it is easier to run away from them then to face them. That is why divorce is so prevalent these days. People think that love should be easy, just like in the movies, but it’s not! It is extremely difficult and takes a lot of work…from both sides! Love is a choice that you make a million times a day. From the smallest and most insignificant things, to life changing events. When you can subconsciously ask yourself, “Is what I am about to do, say, or think helpful to our relationship? or will it hurt our relationship? When you can do this, you are completely “IN LOVE” with that person. When times get tough remind yourself that loving that person is a choice. You “choose” to love them, so you will “choose” to fight for them. Love can not survive if only one person is trying. It takes both people fighting and making that “choice” to love each other. Then, and only then, will love survive!