Everyone looking for love is always a player in the middle of at least two potential lovers, one in front and another behind. The one in front is the dream partner who is either chasing someone else or simply won’t give you a chance, while the one behind is the one who will settle for nothing but you, but in whom you barely have interest. Compromise is necessary for a deal to be struck with either side. You either look behind and run the show or chase your dream partner (who doesn’t love you) and forever be a subservient in that set up, if you make it.