Being the person to end the relationship because he/she mistreated you is a hard thing to do, especially when you loved them with everything you had and believed them when they said they would change. Both sides hurt, one is hurt because they were proved right that he/she were never going to change and other hurts because they had lost what they couldn’t have. In the end both hurt, but the one that hurts the most is the one who believed they were going to change and seeing them with someone else doesn’t hurt as much as knowing they are going to treat the next person the same as they toyed with you emotionally and mentally.

It’s better to be ignorant of who they are with now and focus on family and friends because very soon someone will come into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else. You will be treated right but sometimes God wants us to learn valuable lessons in order to know exactly what to do when the times comes for a solution. Hang in there, God never made us to live alone in this world.